Lost Loves - Stories
Wednesday, September 20th, 2006

Here’s a Valentines’s Day story that we found hard to believe ourselves, but - cross our hearts - ITS ABSOLUTELY TRUE!

We were contacted by Johnny Love on Friday the 13th. Seems he was desperate to find his old friend and high school sweetheart of 30 years ago by Valentine’s Day. He and his two sons had tried other search companies and had exhausted every site on the net trying to find Angelique — all to no avail. Then Johnny contacted Research Etc, Inc. as his last resort to finding the girl he couldn’t forget all these years.

Let us explain Johnny’s current situation. He was feeling very lonely and down since he lost his Number One Sweetheart, his wife of 18 years, to cancer. He hoped that finding an old friend would ease some of his heartache and make his feel a little happiness again. Also, he had learned how fleeting life can be, and vowed to never let anything go unsaid because it may come too late. (When we feel most vulnerable, we all tend to reach to the comfort of happy memories of the past, don’t we?)

Research Etc. started on this lost love search, and worked all day Friday and into the night. We had promised Johnny Love we would find Angelique by noon on Valentine’s Day. And we did! This was not an easy search - not only did she have a very common last name, but she and all of her family had moved from the area she had grown up in when she was 18, and not left a trace. We finally found her living across the country in another state. She has been married for the last 25 years and has two daughters the same ages as Johnny’s two sons - but the story doesn’t end there!

Angelique and her husband are in the process of divorce, and to make matters worse, THIS WAS VALENTINE’S DAY! According to Angelique, she was totally miserable on this special day for sweethearts. That is, until an old friend from 30 years ago called her to say he had never forgotten her! Then he sent her a dozen roses with a card that read, “Long lost friends can be found again”. When we last spoke to Johnny, who was floating somewhere above cloud nine, he said he thought he just might fly out and take Angelique to dinner!

Let’s all put our hearts together and hope that two old friends, who were reunited during their darkest hours, find comfort in the kind of friendship that never dies and that they both have the BEST Valentine’s Day ever!! XOXOXOXOXIXOX!


 

LOOKIN’ FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES….

Wednesday, September 20th, 2006

After a miserable day of rounding up strays on the dusty and dry Double Dogtail Ranch in the hot Sonoran desert, Chase forlornly laid across his hard bunk, eyes suddenly brimming with tears as Johnny Lee’s “Looking For Love” sounded softly from the bedside radio he had just flipped on. It was definitely his song. He had never once doubted, in the two years that he and B.J. (short for Billie Jean) had been together, that she was the right girl for him, and he hoped someday they’d make it legal, get their own ranch and raise a bunch of kids. He just knew they’d live happily ever after.

B.J., with her fiery red hair, was not only the prettiest girl in town, but was also the most popular. All of the single (and some not so single) guys had their eye on her and, up until now, she had eyes for only Chase. B.J., who was a champion barrel racer, was honorable, true blue and expected no less from her own true love.

Where their troubles started was that what Chase thought of as only “kidding around” with the girls at the local saloon, B.J. considered “messing around”. She had warned him repeatedly she’d take no more, but he knew that she knew he loved only her and he figured she should know that’s just the way men are. He didn’t think she’d be mad (and if she was, she’d get over it) if he stopped by TEASERS for a few beers with the guys one night a few months ago. But when he got home (four hours late) she had packed up and gone.

Chase wasn’t too concerned at first, figuring B.J. was just pouting and hiding out with friends, but it had been over a month now, and he had exhausted all of his resources in trying to find her. He was desperate and knew he couldn’t live without her. He found a memo that B.J. had left on the refrigerator with the date and address of her Bible study meeting, along with that month’s secret code word needed to gain entry. The Bible study group had to be very discreet and secretive as they had several divorced members whose ex-spouses had many times crashed their meetings and caused such an uproar that the police had to be called in.

The night of the meeting, Chase drove across town and parked his old pickup across the street from the house where the meeting was to take place. He watched until everyone had gone in. B.J. wasn’t among them. He got out, rang the bell, gave the secret password (which that month was “Glory, Glory”) and was admitted without further question. He sat through the entire meeting without yawning.

After the meeting, Chase introduced himself as “Bob”, a medical intern, and said he was a friend of B.J.’s, and that she had invited him, several days before, to attend the Bible study with her. He had tried to call her, but the man who answered her phone said she no longer lived there, so he came on to the meeting in hopes of seeing her there. He entered into the group conversation - even examining one lady’s sore foot and prescribing a remedy - and they began to talk about poor B.J.’s hard times with her loser boyfriend, Chase, who was a real jerk, among other descriptions. “Bob” told them he had never met Chase, but from what he’d heard, agreed that he was a real snake. He then asked if anyone had B.J.’s new phone number, but they all were sworn not to reveal her whereabouts. One guy said if “Bob” would give him his phone number, he’d pass it on to B.J. along with a message and she then could call “Bob”. So Chase went out to his pickup and found one of his PRCA (Professional Rodeo Cowboys Association) cards with his real name on it, took it back inside and handed it over, asking them to tell B.J. he’d sure like to hear from her. The “loser boyfriend” then turned and left the house, leaving in his wake a room full of indignant bulging eyes and gaping mouths.

He had been moping ever since. Now, as Johnny Lee faded out, Chase listlessly picked up a copy of the local newspaper and began idly turning the pages without really seeing anything, when suddenly a small ad leaped out at him, almost as if it had his name on it: LOST LOVES, it said, PEOPLE FINDERS. Just what he needed! It must be an omen, he thought. He tore a scrap of paper from a Playboy magazine lying on the bedside table and wrote down the name of the company, RESEARCH ETC, INC., and the phone number, (480) 991-3571. He jumped in his pickup and tore to the nearest Circle K with a pay phone (his phone had been disconnected because he forgot to pay his bill) and dialed the number. A very soft and warm female voice answered and at her promptings, he began to tell her the sad story of his own lost love. She was so sympathetic, he even cried a little, but, being Chase, he couldn’t help wondering what the rest of that sweet voice looked like.

Chase gave RESEARCH ETC all of the details and the investigators went to work. He paid his phone bill and even bought a cellular phone so he could call in during the day from out on the range. He also called at night when he was the most lonesome for B.J. - mostly just to talk, and he didn’t care which of the female P.I.’s he talked to. After a few days, he was in love with them, and he would have married one, or all of them together, just to get out of his misery.

Chase began to hang out nightly at Handle Bar J’s, the local cowboy watering hole, and even had a short fling with a stunning dark-haired rodeo queen named Blaze who was half Cherokee Indian. She let him cry on her shoulder for a while, but finally, very gently and firmly, told him to hit the trail. Blaze had left too many cowboys chompin’ at the bit for her company to waste any more time on this lovesick calf. He was one sad cowboy who couldn’t even say one sentence without mentioning B.J.’s name.

Finally, after many days and nights of intensive searching, RESEARCH ETC finally located B.J.! They cautioned Chase to be very careful how he approached her as his eagerness could be mistaken for stalking, and advised him to write her a letter. Finally one night, he drove with his sister (whose integrity was above question) to the house where B.J. was staying and parked a block away, staying in the pickup while his sister went in and talked with B.J. They talked until three in the morning. Chase called RESEARCH ETC from his cellular phone every few minutes to assure them he was staying in the pickup and not intruding on B.J. The P.I.’s stayed up with him, taking his calls and telling him “Good boy” for being so patient. (By this time, he was like part of the family!)

B.J. finally consented to have dinner with Chase the next night, and after talking it out, they agreed to date for awhile until Chase could prove he was responsible and ready to settle down and make a lasting commitment.

Chase & B.J. dated for a few months and today, on Valentine’s Day 1997, RESEARCH ETC got word that a gorgeous diamond ring came along with the dozen red roses and the big question that B.J. received from Chase. B.J. said YES.

RESEARCH ETC, INC. thinks they’ll live happily ever after!

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY TO CHASE AND B.J. - AND TO ALL THE REST OF YOU SWEETHEARTS!!! WE LOVE YOU AND HOPE YOU’LL ALL BE OUR VALENTINES!!


 

Clay & Lori
Wednesday, September 20th, 2006
 

4 Nov 1996
Dear Lori, Hi! How well do you remember 1971? Allow me to take you back. There were two guys that would often come to your house on Larkspur Drive to visit you. One was your boy-friend and one wished he was! I am the latter. Every time I go by that house where you lived I think of going up those steps to your front porch where we would hang out.

Some time after you and Duane broke up an incident took place in the North Junior High auditorium I will never forget. You and Kathy were sitting in the back left section waiting for a movie to start. I was sitting alone on the other side waiting to run the projector. Kathy came over to me and asked, ?Do you like Lori??. If I had not been so shy I would have exclaimed, ?Boy, do I!?. However, I sheepishly uttered 3 words that echo through my mind to this day: ?For a friend?. At that moment my destiny was irrevocably altered, and I knew it. I had just committed the biggest blunder of my life. My dream of giving you my ID bracelet and holding your hand during movies never came true. Who knows where it would have led if it had, but it certainly would have been down a better road than the one I have traveled the last 25 years. What happened that day was the most important turning point in my life.

Why do I say this? Because after you and I went our separate ways my life was never the same. I always knew if we had gone together I would be a different person today. Maybe it would have worked out for us in the long run, and maybe it wouldn?t have, but in either case I would have been a better and more confident person from going with you. I tucked my memory of you safely away in a quiet corner of my heart, where every now and then for the next 25 years I would recall it with both wonder and regret.

Then it hit me. One day in late 1991 I watched Back To The Future - Part III, which you may know is the one where Doc goes back in time and finds his true love. All of a sudden I was inspired to go to my past and seek my true love. I already recognized each and every girl I ever liked was not the right one, with the sole exception of you, in whose case it was never resolved. I had to know if you were that right one, and whether or not it was too late for us. Since I could not go back in time and change things I would do the next best thing, which was to find you, holding the slim hope you would be single and unattached, and we could somehow be reunited. Off and on for the next 5 years I did all the research I could do and talked to anyone I could find with any clue to your whereabouts. But everything I tried was a dead-end.

I finally came to the conclusion that I had done all I could do, but the dream still lived on. In 1994 I wrote a song about you and me. It?s called ?Where Are You??. I had this crazy fantasy it would become a hit, then you would hear it on the radio and call me. I sent it to a publisher in Nashville but it wasn?t what he was looking for at the time. Every time I heard or played on the piano ?Bridge Over Troubled Water? I thought of you. I?m sure you remember it being popular when we were in 6th grade, and to me it was always ?our song?.

I went to a friend’s house last night and watched Sleepless In Seattle. My memories of you and my hopes really came alive as a result. I knew it was now or never. As if by divine inspiration I came home and got on the Internet, determined to find someone that could locate you. It didn?t take long. I typed in ?long lost loves? and found the web page of Research Etc, Inc - a company that specializes in just that. I called them today and faxed them all the info I had. All it took was your first name and date of birth, which I remembered as being February 20th. With only this to go on, one of the lady detectives from Research Etc found your married name and address in another state, and confirmed that you had been married for the last 15 years and have five children.

Regardless of whether we ever correspond or see each other again you will always hold a unique place in my memory. I loved you with all my 12-year-old heart and wish we could have been childhood sweethearts. In later years I carried a great weakness for girls with dark hair and dark eyes like you.

North Junior High was closed down about 8 years ago and converted to a church. I went there one day to relive old memories and found the auditorium had been destroyed and a sanctuary put in its place. A baptismal is located just inside where the back doors were, and I accidentally stepped right in it! I am now 6? 2? tall and weigh 207 lbs and still live here in the same house with my 3 dogs. I am somewhat of an entrepreneur and have my own home-based business. I wonder if I will ever marry, even though I have dated some very nice women.

Lori, from what I learned you have had a pretty full life as an adult with 5(!) kids to show for it. I hope it has been and will continue to be a happy time for you. I accept and respect the fact that you are married, so this will be my only letter. I hope you understand why I needed to know where and how you are, and also that I needed to say what you have just read. I am at peace about things now and will go on with my life. It?s been a real adventure looking for you the last five years and wondering. Today the search ended, and I?m glad I found you. Have a healthy, prosperous future. God Bless you and yours.

Sincerely,

Clay

UPDATE #1

Dear Friends,

You said to let you know if I heard from Lori, and I did! She started calling the day she got my letter on Tuesday but didn’t catch me at home until Friday. Boy, did I feel awkward and nervous! We talked an hour and a half. The girl I have been seeing lately was here when she called and that made me feel even more awkward.

The phone call went OK though for the most part. Lori was flattered by the letter, but I still don’t think she quite understood why I felt the need to go to the trouble to find her. She showed the letter to her friend and two oldest daughters and to her husband (he’s 6′4″ and 285 lbs.).

Lori has a daughter nearly 19! Amazing! Went through one bad marriage and now a good one. Get this: he was her high school sweetheart she reunited with after 14 years! But I was there first. (I didn’t say that though I wanted to!). She vividly remembered the scene in the auditorium when Kathy asked me if I liked her, but didn’t even remember the guy she had gone with (Duane). I loved that, because she remembered me and not him , as Duane always tried to one-up me.

Lori could have ended the conversation several times but didn’t. She was the girl I remember, in that she seemed to see through my awkward exterior to the person I really am. Anyway, she said she would call back later and did, though I was asleep. The last thing she said was that it was great talking to me and she wanted to stay in touch and remain friends.

This has been a tumultuous last two weeks but I hope I get through it a better person. It is still painful to think what might have been instead of all the unhappy attempts at relationships that I made after Lori and I parted ways. I wish I had found Research Etc five years ago when she was between marriages - but I guess it wasn’t meant to be.

That’s it in a nutshell. November 15th, 1996 is a day I’ll always remember. Thanks for helping my dream become real, and for preserving my efforts on your web page.


 

OLD HIGH SCHOOL FRIEND FOUND!

Wednesday, September 20th, 2006

Louis contacted us regarding finding an old friend from high school for a 30 year reunion. We were reluctant to take his case based on the information he had. He knew her parents’ names, and the state they were from originally, but he also knew that her father had died and that they had moved away. That wasn’t the problem. The problem was her name. We’ll call her Sue Green, for although that isn’t her true name, it was just as common. Louis also knew her approximate age, but couldn’t provide us with an exact date of birth.

We corresponded back and forth with Louis, but were reluctant to take the retainer that he was so eagerly ready to send. Louis had already spent enough money with another firm, just to be sent a list of all of the Sue Greens (even though he told the company that she had married in the 1970’s and her name was no longer “Green”) in her state. Afterall, we at Research Etc., Inc., are not in the business of giving our clients unrealistic expectations about our services - and taking their money for it in the process! While we sometimes marvel at the smallness of our world, other times we have to admit that it can be quite large — especially when we are looking for someone with the most common of names, and a maiden name at that!

We did a little preliminary research in order to determine if there was a snowball’s chance of even remotely finding Sue. During that preliminary research, lo and behold, we thought we had located Sue’s mother. Louis sent payment and we gave him the information. He contacted us the next day to say that we had indeed found Sue’s mother and she had put him in touch with Sue. Louis said they spent joyous hours catching up on the past 30 years and that the last missing classmate had been found, thanks to Research Etc., Inc.!


 

  

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